Agree - preamps and receivers-as-preamps are not the same thing, preamps bring soundstage, noise floor improvements etc. (assuming you get a good one), a receiver as pre is good way to improve power output if your receiver is weak, but sound will probably remain the same otherwise.
It is also a pain in the rear to try to get a home theater optimized for two-channel music. I gave up on that and went with two separate systems. Saves you money in that you will stop searching (meaning spending cash) for ways to make a home theater rig do stereo-system tricks, a never-ending mission, IMO.
Regards,
OBG