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Title: This cancer shit sucks
Post by: papabearjew on January 09, 2017, 01:29:48 AM
Many of you have sent me pm's or well wishes within posts about my health and I thank you.  I figured this is the best way to respond. Without getting into detail I'll say that my last cancer scans were not good and the cancer continues to grow despite chemo that makes me really sick. The cancer started in the colon (please get checked) then spread to the pelvis and the lungs. After 5 major surgeries colon and pelvis have been ok but the lungs are a big problem. Colon cancer metastasized to the lungs is far more aggressive than lung cancer that originated in the lungs. The cancer is in all lobes of the lungs and continues to grow. I'm at a point where I'll have scans after only three more treatments. Just finished one on Thursday. Down the road I'm facing some pretty sucko decisions about treatment. That's the gist of things anyway. I know an approximate timetable but would prefer not to post it.
Without my family (especially my granddaughter!) I probably would stop the chemo. At least music gives me a lot of enjoyment.
Hope this makes sense, too lazy to proof read.
Title: Re: This cancer shit sucks
Post by: Kingman on January 09, 2017, 06:14:28 AM
Prayers sent your way. Cancer does suck! My father died at 53 from cancer and several of my uncles also. I've seen the ugly side and pray for a cure.
Title: Re: This cancer shit sucks
Post by: MacGeek on January 09, 2017, 06:26:59 AM
PBJ-My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Title: Re: This cancer shit sucks
Post by: scorpio333 on January 09, 2017, 09:27:45 AM
I'm on the younger side here, but I've seen more than my fair share of cancer suffering. If there's anything you ever need, feel free to reach out.
Title: Re: This cancer shit sucks
Post by: Sir Thrift-a-Lot on January 09, 2017, 01:46:32 PM
I'm sorry Brad.   If there is anything I can do...
Title: Re: This cancer shit sucks
Post by: RnR on January 09, 2017, 02:46:20 PM
Sending positive energies towards you and your family -
Title: Re: This cancer shit sucks
Post by: OldiesButGoodies on January 09, 2017, 07:53:23 PM
Argg.  I want to kick cancer in the nuts.  Looking forward to catching up with your this weekend. 

P
Title: Re: This cancer shit sucks
Post by: ataudio on January 09, 2017, 10:04:55 PM
Stay strong my fellow audio nut.  :)
Sending lots of prayers your way.
Title: Re: This cancer shit sucks
Post by: schwarcw on January 09, 2017, 10:53:59 PM
Greetings PBJ! 

My thoughts are with you and your family.  This is a terrible thing for you to go through.  I know that you have been struggling with this for many years.  Keep fighting for the family, they are worth it.
Title: Re: This cancer shit sucks
Post by: gdv on January 10, 2017, 06:34:57 AM
PBJ,
Prayers for you and your family as you enter 2017 with this difficult battle with cancer...

May comfort and peace be with you...


George

Title: Re: This cancer shit sucks
Post by: EmperorNorton on January 11, 2017, 08:25:11 AM
PBJ,

Good luck with the treatment.  You seem to have a handle on the attitude part of this stuff.   That will help.  Keep your family and friends close.  They are what count.

Mike
Title: Re: This cancer shit sucks
Post by: papabearjew on January 11, 2017, 07:55:28 PM
Thanks everyone
Title: Re: This cancer shit sucks
Post by: bearjew on January 11, 2017, 11:28:57 PM
My answer to this post is a 350-pound pallet being delivered to your place tomorrow at approximately 1pm-4pm.
Title: Re: This cancer shit sucks
Post by: papabearjew on January 12, 2017, 01:07:36 AM
As long as it's not a 350 pound hooker.

Title: Re: This cancer shit sucks
Post by: OldiesButGoodies on January 12, 2017, 08:46:37 PM
As long as it's not a 350 pound hooker.

Yea,  that would defeat the purpose?   ???
Title: Re: This cancer shit sucks
Post by: Sir Thrift-a-Lot on January 12, 2017, 08:58:23 PM
Are you saying someone can't be 350 and sexy?
Title: Re: This cancer shit sucks
Post by: OldiesButGoodies on January 12, 2017, 09:03:15 PM
Are you saying someone can't be 350 and sexy?

Oh oh - what did I do...  350 pound people are awesome!!!  I was just joking - u know,  chewing the rag,...    ^-^
Title: Re: This cancer shit sucks
Post by: Mongojustpawn on January 12, 2017, 11:32:47 PM
PBJ, I'd like to add my best wishes to you and your family, stay strong as you're able. I know from your posts that you're a horn player, so I'm adding this, hope it brightens up your day a bit.
Title: Re: This cancer shit sucks
Post by: Sir Thrift-a-Lot on January 13, 2017, 12:06:43 AM
Are you saying someone can't be 350 and sexy?

Oh oh - what did I do...  350 pound people are awesome!!!  I was just joking - u know,  chewing the rag,...    ^-^

:)
Title: Re: This cancer shit sucks
Post by: papabearjew on January 13, 2017, 12:17:50 AM
Thanks for the well wishes everyone.
Title: Re: This cancer shit sucks
Post by: Comten on August 26, 2018, 10:07:45 PM
Yikes, just found this thread... Anyway, thoughts and prayers to you partner!

Lost many family members to cancer and now watching the wife struggle...

Nothing else matters anymore when you are in the fight.

For some relief, get your marijuana card unless you already have a source so to speak. At least make yourself comfortable. Stay strong and get healthy again!